When pregnancy or baby loss
leaves you feeling broken and lost.
Hello love, you didn't expect to feel so much. Here, you are welcome exactly as you are.
You look in the mirror and don't recognize the woman you’ve become. You wonder who you are now, if you are even a mother, or if your body simply failed you in a loop of endless 'what-ifs'.
You feel like you have no right to grieve this much and are told you should be "grateful" for what you have and are able, leaving you feeling dramatic, overreactive, and unsure how to move forward.
You're exhausted from being the 'strong one', from the emotional labour of pretending to be okay and smiling for everyone else, while you’re quietly breaking and screaming inside.
You feel a sharp sting of jealousy and envy when you see other mothers, and then you hate yourself for it. You're trapped in a cycle of guilt that makes you want to withdraw from the world.
You fear that healing means forgetting, and because forgetting feels like a betrayal, you hold onto the pain just to keep the connection to your baby alive.
But here is what I need you to know...
What you are feeling right now, the exhaustion, the "what-ifs," or the quiet questioning of whether you’ll ever feel like 'you' again... is valid. Whatever your version of this fog looks like, it has a place here.
Whether you are caught in the panic of a ticking clock, terrified to ever try again, or paralysed by the fear of another loss, I see you.
This frantic, heart-pounding anxiety about what comes next is not a sign that you’re failing; it’s a sign that you have lived through something that changed your world.
You are carrying an unimaginable weight, but your grief isn't a problem to be solved or a phase you need to "get over" or "move on" from. It is a testament to your love that remains. In this space, that "anxious hope" is something we carry together.
You are not broken.
You don’t have to stop missing your baby to start finding "you". You can learn how to carry your grief without it swallowing you whole.
You can find your way to a new sense of "normal", one where you can honour your baby and your life as it continues to unfold. There is a steadier, softer way to walk this path, and you certainly don’t have to walk it on your own.
Hello love, I'm Curtney.
I’ve stood where you are, wondering how to rebuild a world that felt like it had collapsed.
If you’ve found your way here, I know you’re looking for a way to carry your grief without it pulling you under. I know what it’s like to perform "okay-ness" on the outside while feeling completely adrift on the inside.
For years, my life was defined by structure and balance. As an interior designer and lecturer, I was obsessed with how things were built. As a yoga instructor, I learned the power of the breath and how to listen to what the body is holding.
But when my own pregnancy loss hit, all my professional tools couldn't stop my world from shattering. That heartbreak cracked me open. I had to learn, inch by inch, how to rebuild my own foundation from the ground up.
I realised that healing, much like good design, is about foundations. Not to restore what was lost, but to rebuild something that honours the beauty of the original while creating space for the new. You don’t need to be 'fixed'; you simply need a steady space to find your footing again.
Today, I combine the structural clarity of a designer with the calming heart of a yoga teacher to help you navigate your journey. I’m not here to lead you; instead, with your permission, I will walk beside you on your unique journey as a steady guide and compassionate companion.
With love,
When we walk this path together.
Finding a steadier, softer way to carry your grief, and discover and embrace the woman you are becoming.
When we work together, the first thing you’ll notice is the quiet, the good kind. The kind that finally lets you put down the heavy armour of 'being okay.' I provide the steady structure you’ve been missing, creating a safe, quiet space where your grief is welcome, but it doesn’t have to be the only thing in the room. You don't have to have the right words; you just have to show up as you are.
This isn’t about clinical checklists or 'moving on.' It is a gentle, restorative process of finding the pieces of 'you' that feel lost. Together, we navigate the huge feelings at a pace that feels safe for you, helping you build new foundations where you can honour your baby and your own life, side by side. If you are tired of feeling adrift and just want to feel grounded, seen, and connected to the wholeness that is still yours, you are in the right place.
Outside the frame.
I treasure a stroll in the sun, a rare treat here in Germany, but my heart is never far from the ocean. Growing up on the coast of Malaysia, I was captivated by the sight and sound of the waves.
I find peace in quiet, creative moments, such as sketching with my eldest or do her hair, while my youngest creates a bit of joyful chaos, or a cosy evening snuggling with my husband and girls. While I’m a homebody at heart, I’ll always show up for a live band, a stand-up comedy show, or a catch-up with friends. I love experiences that make me laugh, breathe deeper, and feel truly alive.
To me, food is a love language. Whether I'm traveling the world through my kitchen or fuelling my body with intentionality, I believe in nourishing ourselves well.
Yes, I will probably remind you to breathe... but I’ll also definitely recommend a good restaurant.
The heart & the credentials.
Curtney Wee is a Pregnancy & Baby Loss Grief Coach who empowers women as they navigate the emotional and physical aftermath of loss. She helps them rebuild self-trust, strengthen resilience, and discover a life lived in alignment with their inherent wholeness.
With 14 years as an interior designer and a background as a college lecturer, Curtney brings a unique sense of structure and clarity to the healing process. Her combined expertise in design and yoga instruction allows her to hold space with patience and deep respect for each person’s individual rhythm.
Following her own journey of pregnancy loss and experience supporting other grieving mothers, Curtney created a holistic coaching framework called The becoming pathway that integrates cognitive- and body-oriented practices with the foundations of gentle nourishment. She is currently completing a certified trauma healing program (accredited by IPHM, CMA, and CPD) and has led specialized workshops on navigating grief during high-stress seasons.
Originally from Malaysia and now based in Germany, Curtney works internationally to help women reclaim their agency. Her approach is warm yet grounded, rooted in the unwavering belief that loss never defines a woman’s worth and wholeness, and it is possible to carry love and loss after.
Time doesn't heal. Intentional doable steps do, no matter how small.
Start taking your first gentle steps.
If what you’ve read so far resonates, you’re welcome to take a first step in whatever way feels right for you. There is no rush and no pressure, only an open invitation to begin caring for yourself as you navigate your path.
The 7-day guide
with
Anchor cards
A gentle guide with eight Anchor cards to help you find your breath and footing through heavy moments.
Your anchor cards experience
A gentle guided workshop to experience the Anchor cards alongside me, discover what they feel like in practice, and begin trusting yourself to return to these companions that support you through grief.
Let's have a
quiet cuppa
Ready for deeper, one-on-one support? Book a complimentary 30-minute chat over your favourite drink to explore how we can walk this next part of your journey together.
Does your heart call for deeper support?
Navigating life after pregnancy or baby loss isn't something most people can fully understand, but that doesn't mean you don't deserve support. You simply have to give yourself permission to look and receive.
Whether your loss happened just last week or years ago, you deserve support and companionship through it. You absolutely have a space here.
Live group programme
Feeling lost, overwhelmed, and don't know what to do with yourself? Together with me and other mothers in this sacred, guided space, you learn to navigate grief with greater steadiness, meet yourself with self-compassion, and carry both love and loss with greater capacity.
1:1 support with me
Your story and journey is uniquely yours. There is no one-size-fits-all approach or strategy. So when your heart calls for something more or you're simply curious about this collaboration, I welcome you to either book a complimentary 30-minute chat, or find out what this 1:1 support can do for you.
There is always room here for hope, for small moments of relief, and for the beginnings of unfolding into who you are becoming, gently, and at a pace that honours your unique journey.
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